HUDSON FALLS – The family of Michael Charles Graham is deeply saddened
to announce the enormous loss of their beloved husband, father, father-in-law,
Papa, brother, uncle, and friend. Michael passed into the arms of our Lord the
afternoon of January 6th, 2022 following a long and bravely fought battle with
pancreatic cancer.
Michael was the son of Charles and Marion Graham, born on June 15th,
1945 at St. Elizabeth’s Hospital in Manhattan, NY. He was born the 5th of 7
children, joining his older brothers Edward, Charles, James, and Francis, and
followed by his younger siblings Patrick and Marianne, all of whom were very
special to Michael. Always close, Mike and his brother remained tightly bonded
through Fran’s battle with cancer. Although family was already a cornerstone
value for the Graham family, after Fran’s passing this left Michael, Pat, and
Marianne especially tight in recent years.
Michael’s childhood was spent on Woodycrest Avenue in the Bronx, going
to Catholic School where he shared many stories of how the Brothers attempted
to keep him in line. Although he did not remain in the Bronx past his teenage
years, Michael’s roots remained deep. Through time and distance, he preserved
connections and traditions from his life in New York, fondly sharing memories
throughout his lifetime. At the age of 16, he was recruited to Poultney High
School in Vermont due to his legendary skills on the basketball court. Having
vacationed at Lake St. Catherine growing up, he was drawn to the area and became
a Poultney Blue Devil. He fell in love with the hometown feel in Poultney and
forged many dear connections. He had the best of both worlds, maintaining
meaningful and close relationships from his childhood and youth through the
years and across the miles.
Michael loved his years on the basketball court and set many records
during his Blue Devil days. His experiences and accolades on the court impacted
the course of Michael’s life. He not only carried the values and work ethic
with him, but also deeply treasured the friendships and bonds with teammates
for years to come.
Following his graduation from Poultney High School in 1965, Mike
started his journey at Castleton State College, but was called on a different
path. After a short stint back in New York on Wall Street, he ultimately
decided to enlist in the Air Force in 1968. He was a member of the Military
Police, guarding air crafts overseas when there were threats. Following his
service, Michael returned home, eventually finding his way back to Poultney.
Mike’s move and time spent in Poultney ultimately led him to meet his
future wife and daughter on St. Patrick’s Day in 1974 through mutual friends.
He always considered this his very own “Irish Blessing.” He and his beautiful
bride, Donna, knew very quickly they were meant for each other and were married
on September 28th, 1974. With Mike’s marriage to Donna, he adopted her whole
family as if they were his own, and their love for Mike was whole-heartedly
given right back to him. Mike, Donna, and their daughter Danielle established
their family life in Hudson Falls and welcomed their second daughter Lisa, on
January 11th, 1979. Throughout their 47-year marriage, they built a life
together based on love, forged with hard work, and defined by generosity, creating
a haven for family and friends, sharing much joy and laughter through their
entire marriage with each other and those around them. Mike considered the gift
of his grandchildren, Ella, Juliana, Alex, Anna, Marion, and Rose, to be one of
his most cherished blessings. Not only did he take pride in each of his grandchildren’s
accomplishments, but he often spoke of his pride in watching his two daughters
build beautiful lives with their husbands, Bill and Dave, along with their
children.
With his family life settled in Hudson Falls, Mike began his long-term
career initially at Glens Falls National Bank in credit. Over the years, he
pursued his college-level education and began his 31-year-long career in 1978
at what was then known as Glens Falls Cement Company (Lehigh Hanson Cement
Company.) He began working at the cement company as a laborer, and through hard
work and education was given the opportunity to become the credit manager. In
this position, Michael certainly used his professional and educational
knowledge, but most importantly his gift of making personal and meaningful
connections to develop relationships with his customers. All who knew Mike
understood that his title of credit manager was not just a job or career, but
another place for him to personally connect with people and forge friendships
to last a lifetime.
Mike’s life gift of connecting with people and his desire to live in a
“big” way reached all aspects of his life from family, to work, to friendships.
There is not a person who met him who did not have a “Big-Mike” story, all of
them heartfelt, and most of them hysterical. Each connection was uniquely
special to Michael and his family, and every memory is cherished. Mike’s heart
was big enough to hold special compartments for all of the people he loved and
there is a special place for the core friendships (many of them golf buddies)
that developed and supported him later in his life, particularly through his
journey battling cancer.
Michael is predeceased by his parents Charles and Marion Graham, as
well as his brothers Edward, Charles, James, and Francis. He is also being
reunited in Heaven and eating jelly donuts with his son-in-law, William Kuba.
Michael leaves behind his devoted wife of 47 years, Donna Graham; his
loving daughters, Danielle Kuba and Lisa Winter; his son “in-law” David Winter;
and 6 grandchildren, all of whom were the sparkle in his eyes: Gabriella
(Tyler) Hoag, Juliana and Alexander Kuba, and Anna, Marion, and Rose Winter.
Left behind to mourn him are his brother and sister, Patrick Graham and
Marianne Graham. Also carrying on his memory are sisters- and brothers-in-law
and many cousins, nieces, nephews, and friends.
Mike and his family would like to extend a heartfelt thank you to Dr.
Darci Grubbs, Nikole Slowick, PA, nurses Sara and Susan, and all the angels at
the C.R Wood Cancer Center at Glens Falls Hospital. Their love and care of
Michael on his journey “restored our faith in humanity.”
Arrangements will be private and arranged at the convenience of the family.
In lieu of flowers, he would prefer nothing more than prayers for
everyone. For those who have asked what more they can do, Mike’s heart was tied
to Randi’s Patient Assistance Fund through C.R Wood Cancer Center at Glens
Falls Hospital. Randi’s Patient Assistance Fund through C.R Wood Cancer Center
at Glens Falls Hospital, 100 Park Street, Glens Falls, NY 12801, c/o Vickie Yattaw,
RN, OCN.
